I just can’t believe the past few years. 2019 was an awful year. Then COVID-19 came and left me feeling as if 2019 is just haunting us forever.
I have never felt so not on the same page in my entire life. I was so absorbed in my craziness I didn’t even realize it started with Trump when it did. It’s like he made me see this division between what feels like me and the rest of my world.
And even though he’s not in power anymore he has influenced so many of the opinions in my life. Was I blind before? Am I awake now? I like to have faith in humanity but it’s really hard to find these days.
I want to believe there isn’t an evil conspiracy. I want to believe I see evil where it lives. But the negatively just never ends. Why does it make me feel like I need to shut my mouth?
And I can’t help but feel like karma is so real and coming back for it all.
I have a husband who believes COVID-19 is a hoax. He says he got the one and done vaccine to make me happy. He got a blood clot in his leg. And according to him of course the vaccine caused it.
I have a best friend who was always scared of COVID but believes a conspiracy about vaccines. Refused to get one until she was forced to before a treatment for end stage RA. Within a short period of time, she got the vaccine, a chemo treatment and then tested positive for COVID-19. She is now suffering from myocarditis, a possible complication from all of the above. How do we know what caused it?
I’ll bite my tongue if I have to for those I love and care about. But how long do I have to is the question. When will we have more answers?
I currently would give anything to be there for my best friend but all I was able to offer was a ride home from the hospital. I refused to go in the house because her daughter is still under quarantine. (My friend tested negative before I picked her up).
So her little girl has been home for over a month with no interaction with the world. And her mother was hospitalized for almost a week. This little girl was sick and out of school for two weeks before they all started testing positive within the home. Her quarantine started when her mother’s ended. She has still tested negative.
And then there’s always things my husband says that just make no sense. “I don’t think someone on their death bed would be posting on Facebook as much as she is”. Well I’m pretty sure I’d be staring at my phone if I was alone and laying in a hospital bed. He also didn’t seem to fond of the idea that I picked her. But it’s a hoax right?
And then there’s my brother. He doesn’t believe in the accuracy of the tests now. He doesn’t think I should have picked her up either. I can’t help but be so disappointed in him and his selfishness these days.
But this text from my brother a few drunken nights ago kinda pissed me off “I dunno about you, but I can’t handle another loss this close right now.” Bro you haven’t given a shit about her in a long time. You allowed your wife and her sisters to be downright mean to her about her disability in their own twisted way. And you have allowed your wife to control your relationships since. She’s my best friend. And I’ve seen her health decline for years now. But you guys all look at her and see nothing wrong right? So judgmental.
I just don’t understand how we have come to be so confused about everything. Why can’t people just trust the experts? And how close to home does it have to hit before we understand the consequences of our actions?
And then we had to throw into the mix the National school violence threat this week. The anniversary week of Sandy Hook of course. A challenge that started off as a skip school day. Look what they did. They made us all scared to send our kids to school. I almost forgot for a bit there that we have to live in fear as well. I don’t think anything happened. But they won didn’t they?
#stopthespread #stopthehate #stoptheviolence